Men’s Issues

Lone Wolf Mentality…

“Figure out your problems on your own.”

“No one wants to hear this ****.”

You’ve got some buddies, but you don’t want to burden them with your junk. So, there you sit again… 2 AM with the warm, dead glow of the computer screen in front of you.

Her pixilated eyes locked on you… feeling completely alone.

Let me smash a delusion for you.

Lone wolves don’t exist in the wild. It’s a dumb lie from the pit of hell that Hollywood sells you.

Lone wolves starve and die alone..

Men have lost their place in this world.

Everywhere you turn, sympathy seemingly abounds for women and children. Support groups. Scholarships.

Strange, but not many people seem to care about how you’re doing.

“Men’s Issues” is a massive category… shame, porn, masturbation, anger fits, infidelity, loneliness. These are many areas of men’s lives that they feel they must go through alone.

Men need other men with whom they can discuss these matters. Real Men. Not fake macho men who haven’t wrestled with their own demons.

A lot of us men are DIY individualists. Seeking help is not our first choice. Often, we must be pushed into reaching out – after reaching a breaking point.

Masculinity has become “taboo” in our culture.

For many reasons, men are being told constantly they should be more like women.

I wholeheartedly reject that idea.

Strong, healthy masculinity involves coming out of darkness into the light.

Embracing emotions. Using anger for you. Owning your place in this world.

Real change can be more fun to make than you thought.

Instead of ‘wishing’ you could make changes, let’s work together to address healthy coping skills, emotional intelligence, and how to handle conflict.

Through our work, you will learn to become your best therapist! You can overcome old patterns, so the outcomes are different – better – to allow your life to change for the better, too.

I can help you reclaim your inner masculinity and step into your authority.