Relationship Difficulties

I didn’t sign up for this.

Low-grade dread creeps in as you approach home. Your wife will be there, waiting – distant and cold as always.

She meets your attempts to get closer with silence. You meet her in the kitchen, and the pain of rejection soon turns to anger.

“It’s NOT FAIR I have to deal with this,” you tell yourself.

What’s not fair is that your emotional state is entirely dependent on others’ views of you.

Years of tension keep mounting.

And it has become a thick soup of unspoken resentment in the air. At least at work, people seem to be happy to see you – giving you high-fives and ‘atta-boys.’ Hey, you’ll take what you can get these days.

This same relational rut with all its discontents has been on repeat for 15 years.

At home, it’s like you’re walking around with a big nametag that says FAILURE. Every negative emotion your spouse voices feels like an INDICTMENT on you.

Of course, the other person can change.

But let’s look at you.

I mean, let’s take a GOOD look at what’s bothering you, so we can do something about it.

Relationships can hurt, but they can also heal. Here’s what we can do.

We can pause, take a breath, and begin to look at how you relate, communicate, and react to your wife.

And we’ll look at what’s underneath the surface guiding those reactions.

Let’s learn some new moves – more effective ones.

With expertise in the nervous system and its pivotal role in the emotional healing you seek, I can help you restore your relationships and eliminate destructive patterns.

We can practice healthy relating with each other and start excelling in areas where before you felt helpless.

Call me now, and let’s start moving upwards together.